Is it Love or Lust?

Sunday, 6 July 2008

The difference between love and lust
What Love is…
• Love is loyal.
• Love is wanting the best for the other person.
• Love is compromising and working things out in a way that you both can win.
• Love is finding common ground.
• Love is trying to come together in a way that makes the world a better place.
• Love is selfless.
• Love is caring about the other person’s emotional needs and feelings.

What Lust is…
• Lust is self-gratification.
• Lust is obsessive.
• Lust is tied to sexual gratification.
• Lust is selfish.
• Lust doesn’t consider the other persons wants and needs.
• Lust doesn’t care about how the other person’s day went.
• When someone’s in lust they aren’t interested in meeting family or friends.
• Lust is wanting something to the point that you don’t care who gets hurt.
• Lust manipulates, destroys and controls.
• Lust often involves raging.
• People who lusts may think they are in love, but the fire burns out quickly when they get the person or thing they lust for.
• Lust NEVER last.